5 Ways to find your perfect Match

Birth, Death, love and Marriage are already predestined according to our ancestors. Well, fate alone is not enough in landing you into a blissful life or pushing you into a regrettable life.

1. All that Glitters is not gold People in the 21st century gives more value to material possessions rather than the people. Values, ethics and honesty had taken a backseat against posers & pretenders. People are always anxious about their social status and the image they carry among their peers. Men are afraid of Gold Diggers and Women are afraid of fakers and rich brats who brag about their riches all the time and make a mockery of women by faking relationships. Bottom line is we still fall prey to these self-proclaimed womanizers or pretentious women for their looks, style, or smart mouth. So we should look beyond a person’s strata to identify a perfect match.

2. Know yourself before judging you’re “would be” First of all, a person needs to know themselves before jumping into a relationship. Maturity comes with age, some people are opsimath hence self-realization and success come late in their lives. But to find your match, before judging them you must find yourself first, your interests, habits, beliefs, mindset, upbringing are the deciding factors which will determine your perfect match.

3. Decide whether you want a wife or a maid Err this might sound controversial, but yes, no matter how we compare our society with western culture and claim ourselves to be advanced society, but deep within even if we date stunning smart people but deep inside we want to settle with someone submissive by nature. Most of the marriages break now a day when your better half realizes that you cannot be suppressed under the social bondages and parts their way soon after things turn beyond their comfort zones. Women have emotions too; they need your affection and care above all if you want them to take care of your family treats them well.

4. Decide whether you want a husband or ATM The same thing is applicable for women as well, more marriages are breaking when expectations of leading a luxury life are not met by their husband. So you got to decide if you can manage with what your husband can provide to you. If you want more help your husband by contributing to the common cause of meeting the ends. Although there is no end to expectations the more you get the more you will want.

5. Romance, Compassion & Desires: Sexual compatibility Yes, you have read it right. This is one of the most important parts of a relationship. You cannot expect a healthy relationship when you are shy and your other half is a sexual predator. Without romance, compassion and intimacy you will miss all the ingredients which are required for cooking a long-lasting relationship.